kink, dating apps
it's always fun when someone likes me on okcupid, sends me a message, and then blocks me
i have a section on my profile where i mention my whole abdl thing, because i'd prefer weird people out early rather than after they get emotionally invested in me (because i think that would be really mean!)
i know it's something that some peeps will probably never be okay with, and if i didn't filter them out from the get-go, things could get really hard