@ctrlaltdog@chitter.xyz it goes ever farther beyond that for me because when i say that i don't really care much for a lot of music, i almost feel like it makes me look like i'm trying to be some smug hipster with "better" tastes somehow
which makes me think that my music choices are judged even more harshly, as if my subjective views that delve into really obscure music is because i "know" more--and not because i just happen to like things that sound happy, upbeat, or japanese