A harsh reminder, sui, abuse
@PaulFerence it works too :(
i never have any idea how to handle that, because i do care about these people, and i don't want them to harm themselves--and it extremely sucks when they self-harm and i know one of my decisions directly influenced that
but i also know that complying would mean i'm rewarding the idea of self-harm
so it becomes a huge pressure point for me that i hate, and if it happens often enough, i have to find a way to justify cutting off the abuse