@Nystre tbh, i'm not sure
while my avatar is this, i've been keeping everything else diaper-related behind a "fetish" cw
and actually, even though i do that, and even though i talk about diapers a bunch, a lot of people seem to click through and fav things, even with my meager audience
since cws are used here so often, it doesn't seem to make the stuff behind it second-class
@Nystre i guess a good way to get a sense for what the instance operates like is to watch the local timeline a bit
though i've interacted with a lot of the admins here and didn't have any problems, so it might just all be in my head
but even so, i'll still keep anything else behind a cw, because consent rules and stuff...
i guess my personal differentiation is that my avatar is how i am irl, but i also probably wouldn't show everyone the things I draw irl
