I've always been polyamorous, for as long as I've been dating/having a sex life, and I mean *very* polyamorous, I tend to lose track of how many partners I have unless I sit down and count on my fingers lol, so it's very strange occasionally coming across people with negative opinions of polyamory, claiming it never works out, etc. I have multiple partners I've been dating for many years, I think it's working fine for me lol
@fluttergirly im the same way, it's something i've thought a lot about
@typhlosion yea I've talked before about how I'm a relationship anarchist and I just do not understand monogamous concepts of relationships at all at this point, like there is no concept of cheating in my relationships, none of my partners care who I do what with, ehe,,
@fluttergirly yeah exactly!!! im a relationship anarchist too. i smooch my friends. my partners will tell me about new folks theyre dating as casually as theyd talk about meeting a new friend. its fine
@typhlosion nice :3 for me its so easy it just feels natural to do stuff that way, I don't even know a lot of my partners other partners jhfghjkl
@typhlosion @fluttergirly Arguably þe most important part of killing þe part of you þat cringes is remembering þe contexts of oðers.
@fluttergirly every time i see someone putting "ethically non-monogamous" in their bio i cringe for a second before i remember that that's how you have to communicate to normies that what you're doing is consensual and fine