meta on meta, I’m mostly talking to myself at this point
@chosafine@instance.business idk if it's my whiteness, my social anxiety, or my internalized self dislike but when I see that kind of public callout I immediately panic going "Oh shit will I be next?" followed by obsessively thinking about my behavior
Mostly I like to speak to folks privately first because it gives me a chance to be wrong if I'm misinformed and to give them a chance to apologize and try to make up for it if not. Idk
