Final statement on discourse
If you're going to talk about identity language don't do it in a way that invalidates identity.
If you're going to approach a person about this and feel the need to yell at them for being inconsiderate, talk to your admins or moderators.
Please, don't treat this like a do or die event.
Your identity is valid and how you navigate this internally is valid. Don't let someone's fuckup challenge that, you are valid!
