So last night I had a horrible encounter with some scissors and ending up cutting my hair very short chasing a mis-cut... because it's been 3 years since I've seen a stylist.. and my hair has been a mess.

Like it has been this short in years.. my bangs literally stop at my jaw line everything kinda follows that.

Since my hair is too short to put up (which I used to do to keep it from getting tangled with headphones) I wore it down for all my meetings this morning..

During all of them, everyone reference me unprompted used fem pronouns.. which usually people that aren't paying attention have used masc in the past.

(My HR profile, gsuite, slack, zoom and everything else at this company lists they/them as my pronouns and a lot of folks not on my team or that are not queer I guess miss that)

I was pretty upset about how short I cut my hair last night... but honestly I feel lot less crappy over it now.