re: subtooting someone who isn't on fedi (i hope????)
i need to learn how to give up on getting that closure. i need to get on with my gosh dang life already. but how can i do that when every bad thing in the world reminds me of all the shit you've given me?
re: subtooting someone who isn't on fedi (i hope????)
a distant mostly-internet friend said i need to stop thinking of those things as "things [that person] did to me" and instead think of them as "toxic things to do"; but that's easier said than done