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There's something unironically comforting about someone laughing at me and saying, "Oh, come on. You're not cis."
I dunno if I'm trans, either. But I've been more comfortable with a feminine or neuter (or in the case of Kirsch here, "it can not be expressed with this character set") identity online since for about 20 years, so I'm probably _something_.
Just don't lock the clubhouse doors on me as things get uglier out there, okay, folks? I'm pretty sure there are at least a few valid stamps left on my Trans Passport, even if ever doing anything about it in RL is just a distant dream—and even if I'm increasingly OK with that, because I just don't give that much of a shit about meat.
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@zebratron2084 Really share a lot of these feelings myself, although I have rather weaker feelings about being trans, other than that I *so* rock it when I'm dressed as Stitch's Girlfriend Angel.
But I could also see myself as one of those folks offering Free Dad Hugs to people who need them. I may not know a lot, but I know I can hug people and tell them I'm proud of how well they're doing.