self, gender (~)
My stupid old calcified brain keeps forgetting that "genderqueer" and "non-binary" are THINGS now and I don't have to either double down on being trans or walk away.
That was my bad. :) There are still some major tectonic shifts happening in my gender, and they are definitely motivated in part by the desire to voluntarily soak up some of the anti-cis and anti-male stigma out of pure stubbornness. :p
But I keep forgetting I have other, less contentious options. Sorry! =^_^;=
self, gender (~)
@zebratron2084 heh, yeah, I grok on both counts. *preens your fur* s'okay, you'll get here eventually. I have faith, or something, or at least anodized titanium feathers which for some reason I felt I had to mention just then. *clickrattle*