What some assholes on the internet have been trying to do since 2014:
Destroy my life.
What I've done since 2014:
Launched an OS
Got a business degree
Consulted with major tech companies
Served on the board of two nonprofits
Overcome trauma and disabiity
Transitioned
Found love
Hmmm. Sure sounds like I made better use of the last four years.
(Why yes this is absolutely the "rub it in their faces" post)