Approaching things with balance does not guarantee results, any more than you would going to an extreme to achieve it. If it involves the free will of others and getting people to communicate back? Good luck bc free will is a mofo.
I dont expect people to understand this. I cant feign any surprise when people assume my detachment is a bad thing, or they think that means Im just bottling stuff up. Nope... I just aint trying to waste my energy.
@Ironraptor (3/3) ...To have that balance, it does require detachment from the outcome. I dont think my gf understood that when I tried to explain that to her this morning, and I know others have made different conclusions about the detachment that they see from me.
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Hmmmm...... Fair point.