ghhh I really hate when a misunderstanding leads to me making someone else really uncomfortable and >.<
It's entirely my fault too, I should have looked and seen that this person is on an instance we do federate with so it must have been a private post
why do private posts of people you follow that are replies to private posts of people you don't follow shown anyway, wouldn't you think they shouldn't be?
@Felthry gnngh - yeah, it's uncomfortable and weird