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i don't know what to do here
every time i try to set boundaries they get upset at us and every time we try to help they just clearly don't want to be helped and i don't know what to do
how do you help someone who's refusing to be helped
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@Felthry like other people are saying, the fact that someone needs help doesn't mean you can help them
if they refuse to be helped, you might be able to make it known to them that they can get help from you, but you can't help them
and if they refuse to be helped and get angry at your setting boundaries, then you can't help them /twice/: you can't help them because they don't want your help and you can't help them because they aren't safe for you to be around
you matter too
you deserve better than this
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@Felthry ⭐ - that sounds like a good choice for y'all's well-being.
hugs if you want them
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