damn i rly need to figure out how to put my hair in a bun

dysphoria (-) 

nothing like lacking basic knowledge that women have to make me feel dysphoric haha

re: dysphoria (-) 

@HeckTheCistem All women learn this stuff on youtube <3

re: dysphoria (-) 

@Fuego that's what I'm trying to do as well

i just

one of my bosses kinda assumed i would know how to do one and didn't understand why i didn't put my hair in a bun and it fucked me up a bit

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@HeckTheCistem I know... I've totally been there. But then I've also had cis girls ask me how to do stuff I figured girls should know how to do. I think it's part of like the societal veil we put over femininity. Its something all girls face. You're supposed to be perfect in this hidden way.

re: dysphoria (-) 

@Fuego thank you, this helped a ton to hear

also, can i just say your display name is amazing

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@HeckTheCistem thank you :) I was very proud of it haha

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