See this is why I like the idea of they/them pronouns.
What gender am I? What if I don't feel safe asking for female pronouns? What if I'm agender? What if I'm a plural system? Do I actually need a potentially personal chunk of identity defined every time I get groceries or buy coffee?
They/them for everyone as a nice formality - a little like referring to everyone as -san or tovarisch - sidesteps issues.
@Leucrotta idk man, Trader Joe's is amazing.
@thefishcrow Awooooo!
some people don't like cute pokémon because they think they're girly!! they're like "only big strong COOL pokémon for me!!"
but jokes on them!! every pokémon is BOTH cute AND cool AT THE SAME TIME!!
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