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I wish I knew how to stop being terrified of appearing obviously queer. I'm not able to think about how I wanr to look because of the anxiety that comes along, and everything I'd want gets tagged as scary instead.
I'm afraid of random violence from strangers (bus passengers, rideshare drivers), stigma at work (even though I already use singular-they pronouns for myself), photos getting back to my family, probably more. I have a variety of forms of internalized transphobia and misogyny