overall enby validation thread conclusion
@shel I've been lucky enough to not have someone say that kind of stuff to my face, but I've definitely been adjacent to convos where trans women treated non-binary identity like a stepping stone to one's ~true~ gender.
I feel like it's a symptom of a small group overgeneralizing when trying to find commonalities. Like "stripey socks & cat ears & programming textbooks!" being treated as a universal trans girl starter pack