so I calmed down, eventually, thanks to a friend on a MU*, thanks to friends here, and thanks to Thelonious Monk ("Locomotive" is a favorite track).
And, actually something swung my mood in the other direction. I wasn't expecting this evening to end with feeling actively good, but I will take it and be grateful!
@porsupah thanks! :)
@Leucrotta I'm very happy to read that. ^_^ **hug**