Like… I bet elves are non-binary enough that if someone’s trans, they swap out hair styles in a way that to an elf is like wrapping yourself in a huge pride flag with MY PRONOUNS ARE HE/HIS buttons, and which outsiders will never notice. Halflings I think use transitioning as an excuse for parties.
@Leucrotta Halfings use anything as an excuse for parties, though.
I bet in a fantasy world orcs pioneered mastectomies and you can instantly identify trans orc guys because they will fight topless just to show off the scars. I get the impression trans feminine orcs almost always become really creepy wise women.