Then I thought; what if stuff I perceive as REALLY CRITICAL is simply what the person considers a normal mode of communication? Two big things about abuse are; you don’t tell others your history so there’s no reason they’d know it, and you’re always jumpy about how any criticism or mood change could spiral out of control. And it’s REALLY easy to offer criticism/course correction in ways that sound like you’re about to open up, as result of this shitty default abusive society.
@Leucrotta huh! huh.