Trying to think this out & tell myself;
* I have a right to look for better housing because what I’ve got now is legitimately unsustainable.
* I have a right to look for a better job because what I have is sustainable but not comfortable.
* I’d still have a right to look for a better job and better housing even if I had rent I could easily cover and a job I liked.
* looking for new work or housing is difficult for me, and if I can get past the learned helplessness I still need to pace it better.
@Leucrotta YEAH.