When you’re10, 30 minutes of adult upset at you is .0006% of your entire life. If you’re 8 it’s .0007% of your life. And by the time you’re even 16 that 30 minutes of bowel knotting teeth clenching self hate instilling misery is a mere .0004% maybe. I did the math; the sheer immediacy will slam you if nothing else, it’ll leave damage that takes decades to revise.