Another thing is that let’s face it, masculinity really doesn’t have much to offer, and I wouldn’t blame anyone for wanting to duck it regardless of gender. There’s a lot of good to be found in all the MANLY stuff, but none of being brave, athletic, stoic, hardworking, responsible, or whatever takes cojones as a prerequisite, and it all gets so weaponized against you if you’re AMAB. Which okay I know being AFAB sucks worse, but.