Toxic masculinity
I remember a co-worker listening to country radio and jabbing at me asking if I was a "Country Girl".
And, uh, he didn't know about me, to him I'm just a dude.
And keri jumps right up and tells him "Well, I drove a Tractor before I ever drove a Car, and I get invited to the lesbian sleepovers, so, I think I qualify"
Shut him right the fuck up.