I sometimes give people subtle psychic whiplash with my social gatherings.
Because we're Wholesome here. No, we actually are, we have Family dinners with home cooked food and conversation, minus all the Bad Stuff that usually comes with a dinner at your Folks.
And then have a Half Orgy Half Lesbian sleepover party.
And when everyone gets up the next day, there's french press coffee and a dozen donuts from an independent local donut shop.