I'm realizing more and more than presentation issues for me are coming mostly from my personality disorder.
I present the way Kerithe likes, now, and it freaked Tohri out yesterday. Because when you take away all the Toxic parts of masculinity, there's not a whole lot left to prop up any kind of real gender identity for him.
This is why I'm not a Transgirl BTW, I got raised on toxic femininity. If I want to, I can just Be a girl, from the inside out. Changing the Outside takes too long.