The girl part of me is thoroughly unconcerned with her gender. It's annoying as hell, because she Likes the beard and won't stop playing with it.
She likes breaking social rules and being a contradiction just Fine.
Tohri, meanwhile, got pumped full of TERF misandry growing up, but went through all the rites and rituals of the Goddess, because... Well if you grow up Catholic, you go to Mass and receive Communion.
Grow up a Witch, and you meet the Goddess.