What's the gender where you just Girl as much as you damn well please because bodies are temporary flesh vessels and gender normatives are a social construct, so changing Designation would be equally meaningless?
Y'all got raised Catholic, I got raised transcendantal Buddhist thinking of all people as one and Balance being the most important thing.
It also means that for me, it's been a grassy hill. I look down and see all my trans friends climbing a sheer cliff.