I have a big problem accepting the fact that I'm actually a fairly social person, willing to engage

It comes out when talking to people that are in a similar situation to me, or one I'm familiar with, and my take on it is WILDLY different than theirs; either in experience or in actions taken.

Sorry if I've done this to you. This is a hard one for me. Remembering that not everyone feels as comfortable as I do with strangers

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@electroCutie I get this a lot, it takes a lotta practice to get to where you're not only comfortable with others but project that comfort outwards and can include yourself without being unwelcome.

@Motodrachen oh, no, like, when I suggest to others that being more social is a solution, or act surprised that they aren't more social with others

I [would like to think] that many people are quite comfortable with me. Just that their willingness to initiate with others is low

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