@clipclopboom@snouts.online Hey, I'm feeling you on that one and just had kinda an argument with Karen about the same kinda thing.

Feeling beholden to some kinda Main Sequence Transition or ideal of femininity (Or masculinity) is where a lotta this pain comes from. To me, you're Willow, you're a Woman, you're trying to figure out what that means for you.

Hell, a lot of my transfeminine friends went thru the whole process, bits and all and identify as nonbinary. We're never gonna be the Paragon of our chosen gender, but we're okay with being Ourselves.

Well, somewhat anyways. Personally I feel like it's a set and setting thing. It's easier to be comfortable in yourself when the people around make you feel comfortable for being You.