re: gender feels -
@Inazuma@snouts.online I keep fearing this and it's one of the reasons I stick with what I'm more and more considering 'Default' pronouns.
Anyone who gets to know me quickly realizes that there's very little about me that's any kind of Normal. But I do feel not queer enough, or not... Whatever enough on the regular.
If it helps, remember that you're the real You inside, and life is the process of making the Outside resemble the Inside better.