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Gender/sexuality stuff, plural 

So, it's one thing to have plural personalities and mental states.
It's another when they have different Genders and desired presentations.
It then gets fun when their sexualities and desires don't line up quite right with the previous two.

For example, Kerithe is a Woman, always has been, and she learned how to Front early last year and she has Zero physical dysphoria. Her sexuality isn't really along Gender lines, more just if you like what she's about or not.
Tohri's Male, he's had to be my own idea of me for a decade or so, and he's... Intersex? It's hard to describe, other than when I'm Him, I get horny in parts I don't have, and usually for other folks who are in between, trans or intersex.

She's a Dominant Bottom, He's a Submissive Top.
It's just weird being Contradictory like this.
Anyone else have a situation like this? I know I've got some plurals following me.

Gender/sexuality stuff, plural, BDSM 

@Motodrachen our gender identities aren't quite so distinct ([Lucy] woman vs [Kabit] demigirl who doesn't feel gender very hard)

but we have the same deal with D/s. [Kabit] is a soft Dom and [Lucy] is sub brat. The feeling of (D/s)switching is much more distinct for us than we hear from the kink community

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