re: mh+
@Draekos You just need to remind yourself regularly that you're Capable, and that things are hardly ever as bad as you think they're gonna end up being. If your life really was as bad as you keep fearing it's Gonna be, you'd be Dead. =P
Also, 'Being an adult' got way more complicated than human beings have ever had to deal with in the last 20 years or so. It's not you, everyone who's 30 now has been kinda held back a decade.