Quandry: You've spent your entire adult life in denial of masculinity, on the principle that it's almost religiously dirty, only to confront those issues directly and find you've transcended that shame and it doesn't apply to you.
Uh. Okay, self confidence restored. So how the hell am I supposed to flirt from a masculine standpoint?
Like. I don't wanna squish anyone.
@Motodrachen for what it's worth, some of us aren't terribly afraid of getting squished ;D but yeah, I get what you're feeling there