When you really wish, someone you know is very capable, would help you with a thing you both know would help you.
But you also don't want to push the manner, because forcing yourself on people is bad and you respect them too much to want to do that, at all.
re: lewd, kinda subtoot, sorry
@Motodrachen I mean.
Wrong guess, but same. Though I think my ear should be stretchy enough and I am even looking forward to that more!