re: gender stuff
@fructose_dealer The thing nobody will tell you is that Enbies get more love than normies.
Like, Statistically speaking. It's the whole kinsey preference scale.
And I know what it is to not match your given identity. I know what it's like to have a 'You' that's strong and can be Happy in the world.
What I also found? That old identity sometimes just needs a year or two of downtime, and when they come Back, they're different. It's a powerful magic. And a lotta my friends went and did all the rituals and then wondered why they Feel like their confident, Real self, but, uh...
The old them never really Went Away.