Selfies, eye contact, Enby Fashion
I'm gonna go outta my way to remind everyone that Kilts are a thing, they're Awesome, they have Pockets, they're gender neutral and still let you wear a Skirt which is Great affirmation if you're transitioning, especially paired with fun and colorful leggings.
Also Hawaiian shirts are available in myriad colors and soft, flowing fabrics, while being cut for those of us with Broad shoulders. They can be taken in to fit your form Easily and Thrift Stores have them by Fistfulls.