re: on being a gender and also not (at the same time)
@heytanuki@snouts.online Thing is, I've known so many otherkin folks, and ultimately Am One...
The reason human genders make absolutely no sense is because they're predicated on criteria that Straight Up don't apply to us.
Dragons, for example. We come in Every configuration. Sometimes, multiple configurations.
And for us, being a Dragon or a Dragoness is mostly a Relative position. ... To Other Dragons.
Human gender is Rigid. Where I come from, I'm considered Masculine, because I do the Masculine things. I wear skirts and flowery shirts and my hair long and do all the Normie girl things...
But my tribe is the hippie bishounen enby pirate musician tribe. I'm the one who knows how to fix Cars and stuff.