Gender real talk
To be totally real though? I identify as a nonbinary hermaphrodite because in my Everyday normal life, I'm under the expectation.
I'm under the expectation of the Men that I'm tough, hard working, skilled in many crafts and trades, and Nominally do the Man thing.
I'm under the expectation of Women to be caring and empathetic and open and loving and sharing with my emotions. And, Nominally, I do the Woman thing around my ladyfriends.
This did Not play well with my DID.
And yes, before you ask, there's three in here, the third is a Goodra, she's Genderqueer, and defies all the laws of tradition just by Existing.