Cabinet Derg @Motodrachen@awoo.space

@gnarlyanimal@snouts.online I'm a meat dragon.

@clipclopboom@snouts.online Keri: I'm a sex witch, there's a thousand things you can do that don't even involve taking the Undies off.

Even stuff Alicorn might like. Tohri's Iron style is popular even with Asexuals.

@clipclopboom@snouts.online That happens. Was stressed out by a job interview thing and waiting for the phonecall today and my brain was like 'Well, looks like we're Horny today"
>_<

@budgiebin@snouts.online @MapleDeer Look, we shared clothes for a decade when it was just graphic tees and basic bitch bluejeans.

Like hell I'm gonna stop just because it's cute skirts and leggings now.

@MapleDeer Get some Athletic Tees, the compression type. They're non-cotton

@MapleDeer I don't intend on owning a bra until my boobs are too big for containment. XD

@Inazuma@snouts.online I'm glad! Going through this period of self-discovery is really hard without someone to guide you.

Here's to hoping you find yourself quickly, and without a lot of undue pain.

@addamschloe I see my friends do this a Lot.
The habit you have to get into is stopping anxiety spirals when they start. Usually it's a result of a biological need not being met, and you re-contextualize it to mean you're not meeting an Abstract need.

When you get anxious, do a personal inventory: Have you eaten, have you stayed Hydrated, have you taken your vitamins and medication.
Are you Sleep deprived, are you Tired, have you taken care of Yourself?

You can't do anything about Abstract needs until you've met your Biological needs.

@Draekos Hah, Feels. I'm feeling like the huge transition in My life right now has been accepting that all the hippie robes from my teens Fit Me again.

The big gender divide when you grow up on the Flower Farm is that the women and the men do Very different kinds of Magic. The clothes are the same, the roles are more or less the same, and the Bodies aren't supposed to Matter.

So now, by the definitions I grew up with, I'm Both things. It's a weird way of getting to being Non-binary in Today's society, but to be Fair, nobody's really known what to do with Boy witches throughout History anyhow.

@Draekos Yeah, I still consult a phone app for the Script as it were, because I like to give a first impression on a spread, the full reading, and then an analysis.

And I feel ya on the witchy thing being a brand new aspect, I knew magic was Real for years, but it was behind a Wall for me.
then Kerithe came along, knocked down the wall from Her side, and asked me why I was being so stuck up about something that could be destroyed by Truth.

'Cause I believed for two decades that I couldn't be a witch because I was Male. Turns out, that was one of those Technicalities, like the Holy Roman Empire. I'm apparently that weird "Exception that Proves the Rule" kinda things, because I can do Both sides of magic, and all the stuff in-between.

And there is a Shitload of it out there, now that I know what to look for.

@Draekos I do a Lot of readings. o_o I was raised on the stuff.
Doing your own cards can be Really hard.

@Draekos Thing to remember about The Magician is that they're a Central power card. And when it's saying that your Future is such, with the High Preistess as advice, it's saying that the hidden, the feminine, and the Arts are going to play a pivotal role, and that you shouldn't forget that while you're a master of all elements, that your particular strong suit is Cups.
Your Reality is Wands and Cups. Brushes and Hearts. Your Fears are Swords, your Past is the Masculine, and your path forwards is going to be opposed by Swords. The Masculine.

Don't forget your nature going forwards, and don't clash swords with Swords. That part of your life is behind you. the magician has the Sword on the Table, equal with the other symbols, but holds aloft the Impossible Candle, the symbol of Magic Itself.

@Inazuma@snouts.online A therapist or someone else?