re: question about slur(??)
@Felthry Cuckoldry, or your wife cheating on you with another (Usually superior) man.
It's a Cishet hate word I guess?
@hyratel @Zeny@snouts.online is this one of the chinese motor bicycle kits?
Queer / Respectability / "Obnoxious" / Cursing
The idea that "new baby queers" are "too loud and obnoxious" about their identities is irritating at best and malicious at worst.
The queer community has ALWAYS been loud. ("We're here, we're queer, get used to it!")
Being loud and proud has been a constant in our fight for our rights. We should not have to be quiet just because you personally don't want to broadcast your personal identity to the world. You don't have to. But you don't get to tell everyone else that they can't, either.
I spent my whole life being told to sit down, shut up, and do what others told me to do. Be what others told me to be.
I fought tooth and claw for my identity, and I will scream about it however much I want. You can pry my gender and my sexuality from my cold, dead claws, you fucking cowards.
I'm queer. I'm nonbinary. I'm bisexual. I'm a maverique.
And I am here to make the majority uncomfortable.
—
Vik (They/them)
re: Queer / Respectability / "Obnoxious" / Cursing
@nyandere Yanno, I used to think this way though.
I used to think that if I was just Acceptable in every other way, I wouldn't get stomped on for being queer.
And then 2016 happened. I realized the folks I was trying to get in the better graces of were Nazis.
I quit the job, grew out my hair, turned my back on my degree more or less, and accepted that my "Career" was basically Over.
I'm much happier now. But I'm a Lot poorer than I would be otherwise, if I'd just kept quiet about what I am.
Had to decide between abundance for my small queer family and standing for abundance for all.
It's not always a brave act of rebellion. Sometimes it's peeking your head out of a hole wondering if the bombs have stopped yet.
@Felthry Oh Gods, today here too
Lewd
I mean... Gay? It's really hard to think of myself as Gay.
All my friends are Bottoms. And girls. And even when I'm feeling really Girl, I'm still Boy by just... Relative Position.
If anything's gonna actually Happen, one of us is gonna have to top. No, I don't care what's between your legs, it's not super relevant.
Agender and Asexual with weird sensual and psychological kinks? Okay.
Shy and psychologically damaged with Very specific no-go stuff but nymphomaniacal otherwise? Absolutely.
Like Flirting almost exclusively, but enjoy having the One night where you get drunk and follow through and want someone who can change gears suddenly like that? Yup, been there.
I'm more like one of those Living Gasm Drives. My whole Fetish is just Being a shapeshifting tentacle monster who can Grant Wishes.
Does that make me Dom, or Sub? Or some weird superposition?
i know this is a long shot, but... anyone know anything about fantasy football? = w = ; I'm participating in my first draft ever tonight, I do not even full understand how a game of football works, I only *kind of* understand how the draft works at all... any advice at all would be helpful. or even like. please give me your draft picks. Who Are All These People
@InspectorCaracal@tootplanet.space Well, jokes on those old biddies, turns out there was some shit they didn't know.
Like if you go thru all the rituals and truly Believe, even someone with an xy chromosome set can be a Witch. ...Oh, and it seems like I was born intersex anyways, so I get past all that shit on a Technicality, I just convinced myself I was male because I wasn't a Woman.
@InspectorCaracal@tootplanet.space This was ironically my upbringing.
The women in my life were always the 'Men are Awful and inherently Evil, and Women are pure and inherently enlightened" types.
Like Gee, I wonder why I grew up with massive gender issues and empathize as much with my transmasc friends as my transfemme friends?
@fructose_dealer gender fluid dynamics
@Motodrachen
Let's write the other Koch in there real quicj
Southern Mass's local machine healer and part time witchdoctor.
Tiny motorcycles, magic potions, machine tools, progressive rock, trance states, and hand sharpened drill bits. Oh, and I read Tarot. Probably 18+ just to be sure.
#nobot