Gender
The kinda enby where I've trained for more than just Two gender roles and can perform them more or less passably.
And I've S-ranked a few of them.
And now I'm back to staying at home in a Robe, and building stuff with Lego. Last time I was living like this, it chronologically Predated the concept of Gender, for me.
@LuigiEsq everyone asks if they might be giants but nobody ever asks if they should be giants
@typhlosion We've got Three and fill all the above genders.
A tidbit for my anxious and trauma folks, those who have had to deal with unloving relationships or manipulators:
I love hearing your weirdness. I love seeing you get excited about your special interests. I will let you know (gently) if you are going on too long or being annoying. You probably will never get there. I'm autistic, I can appreciate infodumping even if I'm not passionate about the topic. You're not for everyone, and that's ok. You can only find your people if they can see you.
Good comrades and friends will not shame you for being yourself or talking about what you love. I know you probably know that logically. I know it's really hard to internalize. That's ok. It's not unreasonable to expect people to communicate their own boundaries. Give them space to say no, but don't hold yourself back because of shame or fear.
Good boundaries don't make assumptions. They might require some awkward conversations. Remember Occupy? I love the "ouch" and "oops" approach to mistakes they used. You will mess up. That's ok! I will too. Then we will communicate and work through it together.
re: lewd, trans
@efi @DragonNamedRedd@snouts.online Meanwhile, over here my Body is acting like that and I'm just seeing how it goes.
Having a headmate who's a Woman makes the gender stuff moot, so we keep the beard.
And it becomes the most fascinating, fixating stim-thing in the world to her on HRT. Even facial hair, if you maintain it, is Totally different.It's stubble that gets annoying.
re: injury
@may This is why I don't get a Fae pronouns pin, they don't make one in non-ferrous.
re: lewd, trans
@DragonNamedRedd@snouts.online I mean it's almost All great. Ironically it's way easier for me to be a Guy when I'm hormonally a Girl.
I think that one gets filed under #intersexproblems but whatever. *Munches on some titty skittles*
re: lewd, trans
@DragonNamedRedd@snouts.online You're shooting for all that when the even better stuff is gonna sneak up and get ya first.
Your skin gets super soft, everything gets way more sensitive, Man Stank goes away, body hair just about vanishes on it's own (I was amazed) And you get Boob Hurt. 24/7 boob hurting juice.
And all the psychological, mood, and emotional effects that come with.
KosMediaPicks, Terry Pratchett, Discworld, novel series, comedy.
Have you watched the Good Omens show? Great adaption of the book! (Also, gay-ace angel-demon relationship, in the book too.)
Anything by Pratchett is good. He's extremely formative for me so like... everything his name is on?
For a taster's choice:
-Guards Guards
-Monsterous Regiment
-Mort
-Maskerade
-The Amazing Maurice and his Educated Rodents
-Pyramids
-Good Omens
Also can we talk about the original covers?
Southern Mass's local machine healer and part time witchdoctor.
Tiny motorcycles, magic potions, machine tools, progressive rock, trance states, and hand sharpened drill bits. Oh, and I read Tarot. Probably 18+ just to be sure.
#nobot