Cabinet Derg @Motodrachen@awoo.space

@Lumb Kerithe: I'm like an Allergy Test for Abusers.
Made me feel like a Bad Guy for Years.

Until I started noticing that I was triggering my friends, apologizing, helping them understand what I did Wrong, realizing I Didn't, and they end up realizing someone abused the Fuck outta them.

Didn't mean to just Jump in or anything, but it's like being an EMT at this point, I have obsessive compulsive disorder. I feel almost Legally obligated to respond to folks in Pain.

@Lumb Not trying to rationalize it here. Trying to help you recover from Damage.

And, uh... I'm just talking about Dragony-ness here. Something I've studied for Decades.

@Lumb I'm Three Dragons, my fiancee is two unicorns and a dragon, my Housemate is a damn titanium dragon, my wife is a Temple Dog, and most of my friends are mythicals.

It's what you get when folks ability to see themselves as Human gets shot off because all the Humans they grew up with are smallminded Shitheads.

It's a natural reaction to toxic masculinity and the abuse therein to wanna be a Woman when you grow up; Men are Awful (Subjectively)

Ergo, you'll feel like a Dragon if everyone treats you like one growing up, and they're all small minded humans.

If you're a Dragon, you're a Dragon. It's code for a bunch of neurological conditions, Oh Yeah, but it's also a neat little identifier for someone who IS that way.

And the cool thing is, there is Therapy For Dragons. Specifically so we can be the majestic, cunning, generous, powerful creatures we were always supposed to be, instead of Smaug.

@itspomf@beach.city Thing is, all three of them are You.

Wake them up, talk with them. It's how we've had to do everything over here.

@itspomf@beach.city You can still go back and undo that damage though.

I've been doing it myself. A bunch of stuff I used to Love just got systematically Ruined for me because I was enthusiastic about them.

Not because I was annoying or hard to deal with. Just because I was Enthused.

@perfectblue@snouts.online That was me learning Solidworks. ;_;