@vantablack This is still a lingering issue with me and my wife.
I've had to remind myself that nobody is gonna subject me to that ever again.
re: gender weird feels
@remy@snouts.online Remember that most human beings are pansexual, and you might be really attractive to another person just the way you Are.
I think you're plenty attractive, and as another boy-adjacent (From the other direction) my only real hangup is that it'd still be hetero as hell. XD
But TBH, that cute Boy might really REALLY like your downstairs situation, even if they hadn't expected to. My wife has blown a couple of neat little holes in some of my friends overwhelming Gayness, because she can Do the 'Guy' thing. Socially and sexually.
At a certain point, the meatsuit is just a technicality.
Autism hot take
The more I learn about Autism, the more I feel it's the way humans are Supposed to be, and "Neurotypicals" are the evolutionary stepping stone.
Because everything neurotypicals do in reaction to autistic people comes down to "Don't Be Like That!"
Gee, if we were trying to evolve to meet the requirements of a world that's changed in a massive way, folks who wanted to see us Fail would do shit like that, wouldn't they?
Also, getting kinda salty over the number of folks I know who are Clearly Autistic, but go "Well, I've never been Tested Soooo..."
Like... Dude, I can see it from Orbit. It's nothing to be Ashamed of. It's why you're so amazing at (Fill in the blank advanced skill)
"Oh, but that's just normal for me, I dunno why I'm so good at it!"
Because you're autistic.
NSFW. You must be 18+ to view this content: Nude Gym
One more of Batch, this time on the incline bench 'v'
He's going to be sore after working out all day!
absolutely Loved working on this commission for @kobold !!! Byron is a wonderful lad and he loves beautifying his garden.
"If a person can’t get out of bed, something is making them exhausted. If a student isn’t writing papers, there’s some aspect of the assignment that they can’t do without help. If an employee misses deadlines constantly, something is making organization and deadline-meeting difficult. Even if a person is actively choosing to self-sabotage, there’s a reason for it"
This is such a good article. CW discussion of ableism
https://humanparts.medium.com/amp/p/3af27e312d01
re: uspol
@Cilich @AarkTheDragon@yiff.life And that's assuming he survives the jaundice and stress of his lifestyle for another 4 years.
Gods are a lot less Terrifying and awe inspiring when you're a plural shaman.
I was not prepared for Thunderbird to be a wild turkey, for example, but it Tracks.
And it's really easy to know when you're hallucinating and when something Actually supernatural happens when you know all the voices in your head, and know when someone Else is hanging around.
Getting possessed by a Unicorn is a different bag of chips entirely. Especially when the Body is driving a 1 ton dump truck.
Being plural means you don't just have the One gender. Or Name. Or Pronouns.
And parts of you can come back from the Dead and wake up fifteen years down the line and need therapy.
The positive side is that after wrangling this kinda disorder, Demonic Possession seems almost underwhelming.
Il-Chamadoth the Defiler could show up tomorrow in here and all that'd happen is he'd get tranq'd, Tagged, and set up with a therapy schedule.
@clipclopboom@snouts.online @chr And I'm the charming anthro dragon bard.
Southern Mass's local machine healer and part time witchdoctor.
Tiny motorcycles, magic potions, machine tools, progressive rock, trance states, and hand sharpened drill bits. Oh, and I read Tarot. Probably 18+ just to be sure.
#nobot