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Gender 

The kinda enby where I've trained for more than just Two gender roles and can perform them more or less passably.

And I've S-ranked a few of them.

And now I'm back to staying at home in a Robe, and building stuff with Lego. Last time I was living like this, it chronologically Predated the concept of Gender, for me.

@LuigiEsq everyone asks if they might be giants but nobody ever asks if they should be giants

i'm gay... for GIRLS

and ENBIES. and ALSO BOYS

and people who DON'T bin themselves into any of those categories!!!!

as long as youve got a cute soul!!!!!!!!!

A tidbit for my anxious and trauma folks, those who have had to deal with unloving relationships or manipulators: 

I love hearing your weirdness. I love seeing you get excited about your special interests. I will let you know (gently) if you are going on too long or being annoying. You probably will never get there. I'm autistic, I can appreciate infodumping even if I'm not passionate about the topic. You're not for everyone, and that's ok. You can only find your people if they can see you.

Good comrades and friends will not shame you for being yourself or talking about what you love. I know you probably know that logically. I know it's really hard to internalize. That's ok. It's not unreasonable to expect people to communicate their own boundaries. Give them space to say no, but don't hold yourself back because of shame or fear.

Good boundaries don't make assumptions. They might require some awkward conversations. Remember Occupy? I love the "ouch" and "oops" approach to mistakes they used. You will mess up. That's ok! I will too. Then we will communicate and work through it together.

American Fae are not like European Sidhe. Any of us what could get killed by cold iron Got killed, and we're more or less un-destructable to that stuff now.

We just have Major, life restricting food allergies, intolerance, and or dietary restrictions.

Zoomers right now: "oh dear God the economy is crashing into a depression, this is completely fucked!"

me:

KosMediaPicks, Terry Pratchett, Discworld, novel series, comedy. 

Have you watched the Good Omens show? Great adaption of the book! (Also, gay-ace angel-demon relationship, in the book too.)

Anything by Pratchett is good. He's extremely formative for me so like... everything his name is on?

For a taster's choice:
-Guards Guards
-Monsterous Regiment
-Mort
-Maskerade
-The Amazing Maurice and his Educated Rodents
-Pyramids
-Good Omens

Also can we talk about the original covers?

#KosMediaPicks

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re: Thinking about motherhood 

@Motodrachen omg of course. More faerie mothers needed!

Happy mothers day to everyone with a crappy mum. We are your mother now. Love you.

us pol, covid, failed rich state (-) 

The next two weeks are when most of the US comes to terms with what the most vulnerable people in america have known for a long time.

The US is the worlds first failed rich state.

When the death rate of americans from covid-19 explodes past every other large country on earth the narrative of american exceptionalism will implode.

This isnt even about trump, its about the costs of decades long conservative austerity and deregulation coming home to roost.

Lewd, HRT 

Any of the 'Negative' side effects of feminizing HRT are actually Positives for me due to my messed up biology.

This is somewhat unfair to the rest of my trans friends, Until I remind them of what happens to me when I'm Off this medication.

It's just that I was prepared for some Nerfs to certain stats. No nerf, bunch of stats get buffed, Unspeakable physical agony goes away, oh and I get to be soft and smooth and have boobs.

Which is all I really wanted, TBH.

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