Gender blehs
I'm a gender non-conforming transmasculine person and while I realise I'd likely be totally welcome in projects looking for "women and NB creators" I am absolutely never going to go near one because I don't want be the Entitled Dude Stepping Where He Doesn't Belong.
I go back and forth about specifically identifying as NB but if your project doesn't welcome trans men I don't feel welcome either way!