Species, Tails
I was talking about this on twitter, but I talk about my tail and paws and such a lot both because I legitimately have a kink for such, and because it helps me feel really sexy and confident. Focusing on my phantom tail/paws/muzzle/etc helps me to feel sexy in ways I'm -not- used to. Times I've worn big paws and had a [physical] tail i.. walk, talk, act differently. more confident.
Species, Tails
And, I mean, it makes sense. It's hard for me to ever feel particularly -sexy- in this human body, even though I've at -least- gotten to the point where I can admit that I'm a pretty attractive human.