I do so enjoy having to mentally prepare myself to confront char-gen on a new game nowadays.
Like, you don't even really have to try that hard to provide a NB option: just add a third option and make it give you all the character models to chose from 🤷 (altho it'd be nice if you provided more androgynous models specifically for the NB option)
re: mh (~)
@Rosemary Pyre (same people who made Bastion) is actually pretty nice about it. One of the early options is which pronouns (of he, she, or they) the npcs refer to you by.